WOMEN

10 years ago, Meenakshi Kumaran, a resident of Madurai, got married in a grand ceremony. Her parents not only bore the cost of the wedding but also gifted her 100 sovereigns ( 1 sovereign = 8 grams) of jewellery. That was only about 1/10th of the property of her father, though. Today, Meenakshi is penniless. Her extravagant and alcoholic husband who recently died had long sold off her jewels. After her father passed away a few years ago, her brother took over his property and refuses to give Meenakshi her legitimate share. And on her part, having grown up in a…

Drawing inspiration from protests in New Delhi's Shaheen Bagh, hundreds of women sat in protest against anti-Muslim citizenship laws, on a road in South Mumbai's Nagpada since the night of January 26 around 11 PM - in what came to be called Mumbai Bagh. Although the protests were suspended in the wake of the COVID19 outbreak, they continued symbolically. Today, the protest site on Morland Road near Hotel Arbia has pictures of women leaders and has only one slogan on placard "hum kal yaha the" (we were here yesterday). The site where anti CAA protests were held pre-lockdown. Photo: Santoshee…

The woes faced by resettlement colonies in the grips of COVID-19 and the impact of the lockdown has been immense. Issues highlighted in the past -- such as shortfalls in adequate, livable housing for those evicted from their original settlements -- have only been heightened by COVID-19, as our earlier article illustrated. Yet another stark fact is that women, children and disabled individuals face added burdens as a result of the way such housing is designed.  The feminisation of poverty COVID-19 and the lockdown has placed an enormous burden on the women in resettlement colonies. Managing the household, ensuring cleanliness…

Until about four months back, if one were to walk through the small by-lanes of the Savda Ghevra resettlement colony in North-west Delhi, it was common to find women sitting at their doorsteps alone or in groups, assembling toys from sacks of colourful plastic pieces. Others would be deftly cutting out sandal straps from long rubber sheets and bunching them up in sets of a dozen pairs each, while again others would be doing intricate bead work in a manner that seemed almost effortless. With the onset of COVID-19 and subsequent lockdown measures announced to curb spread, they can no…

Pregnancy is a tumultuous time for any woman. The mixed bag of emotions can be daunting and exciting in equal measure. But with the outbreak of the COVID-19 pandemic, the overriding emotion in mothers-to-be has been one of anxiety rather than happiness.  The world may have come to a screeching halt, as it is battles the COVID-19 pandemic. But even in epicentres, children are being born. Because life always finds a way. But there are many questions are making life difficult for new mothers and mothers-to-be: What are your chances of infection?How do you avoid getting infected?What can you do to…

It is a bright morning. My mind is filled with optimism and plans, even as I watch my mother carry on with the daily chores all by herself. Almost all of the work that goes into running the household is performed by my mother; others in the family do not share the load. A profound sensitivity dawns, catalyzed by my own consciousness and on realizing that the entire work is performed by the only woman in a family of five for the house to even function. After completing all the regular chores, she sat down and that is when I…

For all outward appearances, Neelam (name changed to protect identity) has it all - a working husband, a couple of young and bright children, and a good job for herself. Look deeper, and one finds that her husband is an alcoholic who abuses her regularly.  Not having got his supply of booze since the lockdown started, he has become even more unbearable, screaming and shouting at her for little or no reason... He has also been encouraging their children to abuse her verbally.  Neelam is now worried that, with the government allowing sale of liquor, his abuse may take another…

The reports are everywhere, confirmed by various sources across the country. The coronavirus pandemic and the resultant lockdown have led to a massive spike in instances of domestic abuse. In a shocking report by the Press Trust of India published in early April, it was revealed that the Childline helpline in India received more than 92000 SOS calls over a period of 11 days during the lockdown, seeking protection from abuse and violence. The National Commission for Women has also confirmed a steady increase in the registration of domestic violence complaints from women since the lockdown was announced. But why…

குடும்பத்தார்கள் வீட்டில் இருக்க வேண்டும், அவர்களுடன் நேரம் செலவழிக்க வேண்டும் என்று விரும்புவதுதான் பெண்களின் பொதுவான மனநிலையென உலகத்தால் பார்க்கப்படுகிறது. அவ்வாறிருக்க, தற்போது கொரோனா  தடுப்பு நடவடிக்கையான இந்த ஊரடங்கினால் முழுநாளும், முழுக்குடும்பமும் ஒரு வீட்டுக்குள் முடங்கிய நிலையில், தேநீர், சிற்றுண்டி, உணவு, மருந்து, இத்யாதி என ஒவ்வொருவருக்கும் வேளா வேளைக்கு தேவைப்படுகின்ற சூழ்நிலையிலும், அவர்களின் மனநிலை அப்படியே தானிருக்குமா அல்லது சலிப்பு மேலிட்டிருக்குமா? அல்லது இந்த யதார்த்தமானது இது சார்பான வேறொரு கண்ணோட்டத்தைத் தந்திருக்குமா? கற்பனையே செய்து பார்த்திருக்க முடியாத ஒரு நிலைமாற்றத்திற்குள் உட்பட்டிருப்பது நாம் மட்டுமல்ல முழு உலகும் தான் என அறிந்து மனங்கள் அதை ஏற்றுக் கொள்ள ஆரம்பித்திருந்தாலும், உண்மைகளானது ஒவ்வொருவரின் முன்னால் நின்று  முகத்தில் அறைவதால் முதிர்ச்சியும் முரண்பாடும் சேர்ந்தே பிரசவமாகின்றதென பெண்கள் பலரது அனுபவங்களைக் கேட்கும் போது புரிந்துகொள்ள முடிகிறது.  இந்த வழக்கத்துக்கு மாறான சூழல் வாழ்க்கையில் இதுவரை படிக்காமல் விட்ட பக்கங்களை நமக்கு…

On March 2, women from several walks of life assembled at Jayanagar’s Kittur Rani Chennamma stadium and used their art to oppose sexual violence against women and gendered minorities. Organised by several women’s and civil rights organisations, the ‘Aman Chowk’ or Peace Square meet, was in line with One Billion Rising (OBR), a UN campaign aimed at stifling sexual violence against women. There were workshops, dance and musical performances, poetry recitals, conversations and artwork. Amid exhibitions depicting women rising against injustice, there was an 'aman ki razi' or harmony quilt that was being meticulously stitched by women. This was followed…